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I Said “Yes”

Recently I met with a mentor of mine. When I asked him his advice for parenting, his response surprised me. “Make sure Yes is said more than NO.” I asked him to explain what he meant. “Our children hear no too often and many times its for selfish reasons on our part: we are tired, [...]

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Who YOU Really Are

By Karissa Meador Recently I was in a little vintage store in Monroe, WA. I ran across a picture of two birds, with the saying, “It takes courage to grow up and become who YOU really are.” This quote resonated with me long after I left the store. We so often let the expectations of [...]

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The Power of Perspective

How often do we sit down with someone that believes, thinks, feels, and lives completely different from us and yet seek to do nothing other than listen and understand? Stephan Covey in his book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People says, “First seek to understand, then to be understood.” I wonder how our perspective [...]

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Hi, I’m Your Best Friend. I’m Getting Divorced.

How is it that people around us are losing their marriages one by one and we seemingly “had no idea?” We hear about our pastors, friends, or family members that are getting divorced and we are bewildered by the thought. We say to ourselves, “But everything seemed so great?” As we look at a high [...]

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Let’s Talk About SEX

By Noel and Karissa Meador Ask anyone who has been married for many years and they will say, like fine wine, sex gets better with age. But why is that? Over time couples realize that to truly connect and have intimacy that blows their minds, they have to communicate about the kind of sex life [...]

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The Meadors Unplugged

Our wives so often serve as the pulse beat to our families. Sometimes I come home and see that concerned look or certain expression on Karissa’s face and I know that something is up; I trust her as the barometer in our home. One suggestion Karissa has made that has really had an impact on [...]

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Wake Up Honey, We’re Married!

Too often I hear couples say: “I did not know what it would really be like.” “I think I made a mistake.” “This is way harder than I thought it would be.” Today my friend shared with me that her marriage was ending and neither one of them (she or her husband) want to fight [...]

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Your Marriage: A Liability or an Asset?

I once heard it said that, “Our greatest asset when left unattended can become our greatest liability.” You could apply this to a lot of different areas in your life. For example, your car. If you don’t do regular checkups and maintenance, overtime it will become a liability. Our greatest asset is our marriage. And [...]

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A Mommy Memo

By Karissa Meador We all do it. Many times we see strengths in other moms and are excited by their ingenuity and creativity, but sometimes, these observations can also cause insecurity in us. For instance, how you may feel when you walk into a spotless home, knowing yours is in complete chaos. Here is the [...]

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Love Your Woman

When was the last time you told your wife how much she meant to you? As guys, sometimes I think we forget how important this really is. Our wives need to hear us express how much we love them. One of the exercises we do with couples in our Oxygen workshop is to have them [...]

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